Methodical work with qualified therapists — confidential, online or in person.
Sex therapy is methodical work on specific sexual concerns — over multiple sessions, with established methods. It differs from sex counseling in depth and duration: counseling informs and clarifies; therapy works methodically on function, desire conflicts or the aftermath of difficult experiences.
besser:lieben matches you with qualified therapists. Sex therapy does not replace medical examination — physical concerns warrant medical clarification first.
These counselors are part of the besser:lieben matching network.
Different desire in a couple, loss of libido, erection or arousal questions, orgasm topics, painful sex (vaginismus, dyspareunia), aftermath of sexual violence, impact of illness, surgery or menopause, questions of sexual identity and orientation.
Sex therapy combines conversation, psychoeducation (knowledge about sexuality and function) and concrete exercises that you try at home — at your own pace, no sexual acts in session.
Typically 6–15 sessions, spaced 2–4 weeks apart so exercises can take effect. Broader concerns may take longer.
Sex therapy concerning the aftermath of sexual violence is only done by therapists with specific training. Their qualification is transparently shown on their profiles.
At least 500 units of foundational counseling or therapy training — documented and verifiable.
A certified specialisation in the specific area (couples, sex, family, trauma) — typically at least 100 units of continuing education.
Serious counselors accept supervision from senior colleagues and intervision with peers — to keep their practice reflective and up to date.
Regular attendance of conferences and courses to stay current with research and methods.
Clearly stated qualifications, transparent fees, no healing promises, no high-pressure sales.
Connection to specialised colleagues — referral if a different focus would serve you better.
Verified qualifications, specific sex-therapy training, ongoing supervision, transparent pricing. No healing promises. No sexual contact during sessions — that is a professional boundary.
Looking for shorter, informational support? Sex counseling may suit better.
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